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77How do you keep busy after a breakup?
How did you keep busy after your breakup? After you breakup you suddenly feel like you have so much more time on your hands. I met women who did such a variety of things to keep busy after their breakup....
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81How to accept your breakup: splitting
I have been emailing back and forth with a friend of a friend about her breakup, I’ll call her Alice, and we have been talking a lot about the process of acceptance in how you get over your ex. We've come up with two types of acceptance when...
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76How to accept your loss: a process to help you
I have been writing about loss and the grief that follows, especially in relation to breakups. Loss can often be a hard thing to accept and I've already written about it in some of my other hubs. So you...
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55What's the best way to breakup?
Out of the ash, I rise with my red hair, And I eat men like air. Like Sylvia Plath’s Lady Lazarus you are ready for a change, ready to start again. You’ve tried everything, made the decision about...
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70How do you face loss? Grief and transitions
I am trying to write a post on acceptance but I realise that before we get to acceptance we need to understand grief and how it hits you. We think of grief as something that we only have when someone in our life dies, but you face grief when other...
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64Failure: The Stages of Breaking up
One of the stages of breaking up you might face, is feeling like a failure. I know I did. I wondered if it was possible for me even to pick the right kind of guy to have a long-term (as in over 5 years) relationship with. I seemed excellent at...
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56Review: District 9 - the best movie I've seen all year
I had heard District 9 was good, but I was not expecting it to be so enjoyable. It is a smart low-budget science fiction/action movie set in South Africa. It has a cast of wonderful unknowns, a moving...
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70The Early Stages of Breaking up
It is hard to know if what you are going through is normal for a breakup. Sometimes you feel like you are going crazy, and other times you wonder if you can feel at all. Withdrawal, grief,...
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64Online Affairs: What Do People Get Up To?
With so many people now online dating it is not a surprise that online affairs have increased as well - and they bring their own set of separate problems. What kinds of things do people get up to online? Sending cheating emails Writing...
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72Book Review - Transitions: Making Sense of Life's Changes
It is not often that I say a book changed my life, but Transitions: Making Sense of Life's Changes is one of those times. It is a book I have often picked up and found useful at different times in my life. ...
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